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Dear Cat,
It's the trend nowadays for married couples to live far away from each other due to work requirement.
Would you do it cat, if the situation happens to you? Will you quit your current job and follow him?
If you decided to stay, what would you do when you miss him?
Yours undecided,
S
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Dear S,
There are a few questions that you need to ask yourself:
* How much do you love your job?
* How much are they paying over there? Facilities included: Housing, School, Transportation, Job Opportunities,
 environment, Salary..etc
* How far is it? Inside the country? Overseas?
* How long will it be?
Then, you decide if you can handle the separation or not.

If you are still single, it might be a good thing to work far apart at this time. Less time together, less temptation :p, and both of you can take this time to think if you are ready for life together or not.

However, if you are married and it's for a long term period,  it might be advisable to follow him and stay together.
You can always find another job..but a husband is for keeps (of course you can always find another one too..but if he's a good one, why would you let him go, kan). It's not a case of not trusting him. But ask yourself..would you be able to bear it without him for a long time?
Of course, there's always the SMS, YM , Chat Messengers, E-card, E-mail.. but would it  replace his hugs ? Would a smiley kiss on the chat replace a real kiss? Would you rather kiss an image webcam rather than the real person?
:)  You would know the answer.
If you still decided to be far apart, take turns visiting each other. If he can't come to you, then make the trip  to him. The important thing is the effort. Don't know about you..but even cat needs  contact. Staying in touch will make it less lonely and will avoid any awkwardness when you meet again. Asking about him, his work, exchanging your news will bond you together. Trust, understanding and always be there when he needs you.

"Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows out the candle and blows up the bonfire..... ~ François de La Rouchefoucauld"

Signing off,
Cat